Frequently Asked Questions

Why can't I sign in to my account?

There could be a couple of reasons why you can't sign in: You've typed the wrong username or password. Please try again! Also make sure that you don't have the caps lock on....

If you've forgotten your password, reset it  here (if you sign on as a Member) and  here (if you sign on as a Model Member).

Have you activated your account yet? Check your email for the account verification message from our site, and click the link in the message to activate your account. If you can't find the email, check your junk folder.

Why Can't Independent Models Sign on to Top Websites for Accounts Anymore without being approved?

The new laws were targeted at Backpage because law enforcement could not get them to voluntarily bring down their site. They wanted them to bring the site down because there were just too many missing ladies & almost all of them were usinf Backpage. Not that Backpage was the cause but many times in our society, that does not matter, something just has to get done & Backpage was the fall guy! Ladies were simply doing things that were not safe & no one knew where they were because they were independent. Now everyone has to adjust to the new laws & limit what ladies can say & do what they can to make them safe.....

LADIES: you can no longer complete a Model Post on your own here on our Site go to the ALL GIGS tab Or Click below for ALL HIRING INFO! Once we receive all of the required items, we will initiate your account! FREE Basic Membership in the left margin allows you to reserve for parties|meetings|auditions|Interviews but does not complete the process of becoming one of our Model.



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REAL (Rare Erotic Alternate Lifestyle) Adult Guide

What is the REAL Adult Guide?

For Over 15 years, The Support Journal for Alternate Adult Lifestyles (AAL) emanating from many private discrete membership required adult social clubs!

Dedicated to:

Promoting Pride in ALL AAL!

Chronicalizing Community Benefits of Private Adult Clubs/AAL

Fostering a Safe Environment for Discrete Discerning Adults to explore their sensuality & sexuality!

Reduce Crimes of Passion, Family Abuse/Violence/Breakups

Respect for Member Privacy

Protecting all AAL Interests

Support for Victims of Sexual Abuse

Non Judgemental Friendly & Welcoming Environment

Improve Interpersonal Relationships & More!


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CONTINUED ABOUT YOU? Body Type (Slim/Athletic/ BBW/Curvy etc) Interests: First Meeting| Dating | Lifestyle | Fantasy? Add keywords about you to get more matches! Required Field!: *
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Accounts

As a member, will my info be public?
No, Only Providing Members info is public. Since your info is passed on to the Provider. it should be as close to true as possible to give the Providing Member a greater sense of comfort to meet you! However, using a fantasy name is common place for discretion if necessary.
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Where do Model Members sign up or sign in?
Model Members Sign in is at the bottom of the site on the right hand corner.
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Why can't I sign in to my account?
There could be a couple of reasons why you can't sign in: You've typed the wrong username or password! Try again!

Also, Make sure that you don't have the caps lock on. If you've forgotten your password, reset it here (if you're a member) and here (if you're a Model), Model Member Login then Forgot your Password.

You haven't activated your account yet. Check your email for the account verification message from our site, and click the link in the message to activate it. If you can't find the email, check your junk folder.
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Finding a Model/Partner/Entertainer/Sugar Baby

I know the name of the Model Member that I want to meet. How can I find them?
Type their name in the search bar located in the side column. If they have an account on our site, they will appear in the search results.
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Booking an Appointment

Do I need to register to search for an appointment?
No, you do not need an account to do a search. However, by using the site, you are bound by it's Terms & Privacy Policy. If you would like to book an appointment, you'll need to sign up, membership is free.
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How do I book an appointment?
Search for an entertainer, hosting/transportation provider, lifestyle partner, model or actor/actress according to their Location and Interests, then click the appointment time that works best for you based on their availability-allow at least 2 hours lead time. Then Sign in or create an account and follow instructions to confirm your appointment. What for a confirmation message.
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Lifestyle

What is Traditional Dating?
Traditional Dating as described by most who view the history of dating is considered Charm criteria dating with Chivalrous behavior by the date initiator or person asking for the date. for example see: theartofcharm.com/dating-tips/traditional-vs-modern-dating-etiquette/ Traditional Chivalrous Introduction Meeting initially take place in a public place not neither party's home. Charm is on display by either or one party in an attempt to impress based on looks or means. Eventually what is Alternate Dating will become Traditional as trends change.
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What is Alternate Adult Lifestyle "AAL" Dating?
Alternate Adult Lifestyle Dating is based on lifestyle criteria compatibility not necessarily charm, nor physical characteristic common in Traditional Dating. Some who have unusual social demeanor, physical limitations, are in extramarital relationships that they do not want to break up, or require extreme discretion and therefore can not meet in public prefer to chose their dates based on lifestyle criteria and most times not based on charm or other physical characteristics. Compatibility based on BDSM and Lifestyle discretion sensual and other criteria! Because discretion is usually required, these dates should completely take place in a neutral location with safety person available since most dates do not take place in public. Places that allow lifestyle exploration like Adult Clubs (Public Swinger/BDSM Clubs & Private Adult Clubs) are examples where those seeking Alternate Adult Lifestyle dates can met & explore with limits and safety protected and respected. These initial meetings should never take place in a either party's home. Eventually what is Alternate Dating will become Traditional as trends change then the new New Age Dating will be the Alternate!
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